Although there have been some huge strides in the world
since the 1950’s ‘The-little-wife-is-in-the-kitchen-and-waiting-on-her-husband’
way of thinking, there is still quite significant strides to go in terms of women’s
rights. Especially in terms of the work force and career positions. On January
21st, 2017, over five million women (and men!) worldwide, (one
million of those in Washington, D.C.!) marched, spoke, and made their voices
heard in the Women’s March and made history. Further to this, the organization plans to continue their
awareness by taking ‘action’ every 10 days for 100 days.
In Edmonton, between 3500 to 4000 men, women, and children
marched to the Legislature building to demonstrate their firm position that ‘women
matter’. Female Politicians, Premier Rachel Notley and Calgary-Northwest MLA
Sandra Jansen have been attacked and targeted on social media in the past and
Albertans are fed up. Many men at the march in Edmonton claimed that they want
equal opportunity for their wives and daughters and that the masochistic way of
thinking brought to light during elections south of the border is archaic and
outdated.
Speaking in terms of empowerment, here at U Financial, we
can honestly speak for women when we say, ‘We are all about empowering women in
the Workforce here. In fact, our CEO is female and a powerhouse! She treats
everyone equally and encourages the staff to do the same. We feel that the
equality among both genders in our environment is balanced. We also feel
that women today in some competitive career environments do have the pressures
of having to appear ‘tougher’ in terms of career equality.
Recently we touched base with Natasha Dunbar, Founder of
Morgan’s Mission in Fort. Saskatchewan, Alberta, and she gave us an interesting perspective in terms of how this kind of
social ‘backslide’ is trickling down to the next generation. The Dunbar’s are a
family whose daughter Morgan Dunbar died by suicide at the age of 13 to because
of severe cyber-bullying among her peer group. The family insists that the
pressures that are impressed on youth today is unrealistic in terms male/female
equality and strides toward changing stigmas needs to happen and be congruent
among both sexes.
Here is what she had to say:
“This morning my husband was a tad nervous about the class
one driving (course) he was taking and feared getting the (female) instructor
who didn’t help another co-worker of his. I told him there was the possibility
he just didn’t approve of women being in his line of work and he agreed and
hadn’t thought of that. I told him this happens in his trade (crane operator)
and he agreed. The sad part is, I have also witnessed in his trade, women who take
advantage of being female to get out of some work-related things. This makes it
tough for those who fight for equality in the workforce. He has made it clear
he treats women no different and is very clear to what will be expected if our
daughter (Bailey) takes a career in the crane operator trade. My husband’s
approach to women in an equal trade has been noticed even by a former NAIT
instructor who has commented about my husband being an instructor because of
his ability to treat everyone equal.
It bothers me when I see women posting how this made
"us" look like fools or ‘it was stupid’. They are missing the big
picture of what this whole march was about. I told my husband while watching and
reading everything Saturday that its like we are starting to move backwards
instead of continuing forward. I don’t think it (the march) has changed anything, just made it more
forthcoming. Trump is now in a position of great power and influence which can
make his choices dangerous. He has little regard for women and anyone who can
watch with non-partisan eyes can see that. That can, and will be catastrophic
to our youth! Young men will see this and think its okay (to behave this way) when
its not acceptable in any way! Its basically saying that they should act on
their urges and not practice self control!
We are back to fighting harder to be seen as a man's equal!
It’s like we are moving backwards again. I like to think at least this time
around, we have more men who have evolved and see us as equals so our fight
wont be as hard this time. Last night, I sat for a long time just thinking
about everything that happened in the last year in regards to women in
politics, women in trades etc., and I slowly started to realize that the bigger
picture is: we are so focused on proving things to ourselves and to others that
we are forgetting to stand united. Saturday was a huge start in changing that
but we must keep that motivation going and pass it down to all our youth. The
more we stand together the stronger we are."
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